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Now and Forever Vow…
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Today we are gathered together
to witness the union of ____ and ___ in the
commitment of their life long journey together, the estate of holy
matrimony.
Marriage is a commitment of
souls, two best friends embarking on a journey
together to the same end – a companionship of dreams and goals
together.
Someone very wise has said “Love does not consist into simply gazing
into
each others’ eyes, but looking outward together in the same
direction.”
In
addition, love does not consist in changing each other, because people
do
not change. A kiss will not change a frog into a prince or princess.
Marriage
is not a fairy tale, it is work, and you must be up to the task.
Love consists in
validating each other and at times compromising out
of love for each other, but never forsaking each other, never giving
up.
Put
your hands together and look at them now… young, supple and eager to
begin your new life together. Look at those same hands
every anniversary of your life together and remember how they looked
today, and rekindle the love and sense of commitment that you feel
today.
Wedding rings are a symbol of your commitment and love for each
other.
By placing your rings on your fingers now, you commit to a union of
your souls for as long as you both may live.
(Groom places ring on bride; Bride places ring on groom).
(Pastor) In unison, repeat after me:
(Bride and Groom repeat in unison, hands joined)
“I
shall always seek to keep the love that exists in my heart for you
today (pause) and all of our days together,(pause) through life’s
inevitable ups and downs,(pause) happiness and sorrows (pause.)
I will do my best to support you in all your endeavors, (pause) and if
compromise is necessary, we will talk it over (pause), never ending a
day together angry (pause).
Together we will look forward to a better tomorrow and always
seek to keep our priorities each other.”
Pastor
speaks to Bride and Groom:
Love combined with a positive attitude
goes a long way, and we never know if we may or may not be granted a
tomorrow. It is up to you to make your tomorrows brighter
through your love, commitment and communication with each other.
Pastor speaks to Guests:
Friends and family who are gathered here today:
Do you vow to support this couple in any way possible during their
journey through life together? (guests say “yes”)
Is
there anyone here who believes this union should not be so?
If yes, speak now or forever hold your peace.
With
the power invested in me by the state of ____, I now pronounce
you husband and wife. You may now embrace and kiss….. G.
Rizzo
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